Advocate for perinatal mental health & wellbeing, imperfection and feeling the feelings.
Cheerleader for Big Dreamers with a superpower in helping you live life to the beat of your own drum.
Hello Wild & Precious One!
Welcome to my corner of the internet, a space where I write about the imperfections and reflections of daily life.
Life as an unexpected mother, accidental blogger, fierce imperfection advocate, narrowboat dweller, partner to a South African bushman, fur mama to a Zulu dog, former teacher, big dreamer, avid plan hatcher, wine lover, constant talker (even through films) and less traditional adventurer.
I hope that by being here you are ready to live life to the beat of your own drum.
Ready to accept that you’re in this world to do big things. Ready to let go of the belief that life should be hard, that you need to hustle, to strategise and to be better.
It’s time to let your heart rule the show.
Your intuition is less than gently, nudging you to follow your heart but the noise and clutter of everything you should be, and do, is drowning it out.
You’re ready to break free of the belief that you need to develop yourself before taking action.
You’re ready to understand that you are, know and do enough
Just as you are right now
So, courageous soul, let’s adventure through this life together.


Advocate for perinatal mental health & wellbeing, imperfection and feeling the feelings.
Cheerleader for Big Dreamers with a superpower in helping you live life to the beat of your own drum.
Hello Wild & Precious One!
Welcome to my corner of the internet, a space where I write about the imperfections and reflections of daily life.
Life as an unexpected mother, accidental blogger, fierce imperfection advocate, narrowboat dweller, partner to a South African bushman, fur mama to a Zulu dog, former teacher, big dreamer, avid plan hatcher, wine lover, constant talker (even through films) and less traditional adventurer.
I hope that by being here you are ready to live life to the beat of your own drum.
Ready to accept that you’re in this world to do big things. Ready to let go of the belief that life should be hard, that you need to hustle, to strategise and to be better.
It’s time to let your heart rule the show.
Your intuition is less than gently, nudging you to follow your heart but the noise and clutter of everything you should be, and do, is drowning it out.
You’re ready to break free of the belief that you need to develop yourself before taking action.
You’re ready to understand that you are, know and do enough
Just as you are right now
So, courageous soul, let’s adventure through this life together.

Deep inside me, there’s a drum beating.
It’s been a wild ride getting to this point, the point where I listen to the drumbeat, tune in to that and drown out the head chatter, the external noise, and my Inner Critic. A personal journey that bought me back to writing.
Along the way, I thought about what I wanted to spend the time that took me away from being a mum doing.
I thought about what I wanted my little girl to be proud of me for, what I wanted her to grow up knowing and how I could support that.
I want her to unequivocally know that she is enough, that she is good enough to take up space on this planet in whatever way she chooses.
And the only way I know she will truly feel and understand that, on a bigger scale than me telling her, is if this narrative that surrounds us shifts. A narrative that currently suggests there is such a thing as perfection, that we should all be striving for common goals, that there are markers to indicate whether you are good enough, that you should look, feel and act a certain way.
I want her to live life to the beat of her own drum without batting an eyelid at doing so.
So, here we are.
Not only am I writing to remind myself that I am enough, that my feelings and emotions are valid, that I do not need fixing. I’m writing to normalise imperfection, to drown out the Inner Critics, the head chatter and the constant noise, and to help create a shift away from the stories surrounding us right now.
And if this in turn helps you, or helps someone you know, then that makes my heart skip a beat.
But most of all, Tillie, this is for you.
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Following My Intuition Down An Unknown Path
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Wherever you are in your business journey, being an entrepreneur can be hard and I bet there are days you don’t enjoy it and wonder what on earth made you decided to go it alone in the first place!
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Send me a message, tell me what lights you up, what’s holding you back and what your Big Dreams are then I will get in touch with some suggestions of how I can help.